Blessed Silence

…what they had to say communicated itself best in the blessed silence of their release and isolation.

Edith Wharton, The Age of Innocence

At times during this past year I have experienced the beauty of shared silence at level deeper than I could have imagined. It is true that silence can feel awkward, but in a relationship of trust, the communication that occurs with the eyes, with touch and through quality of presence transcends words. Anyone who knows me knows that I believe in the beauty of words, both written as well as spoken. I sometimes crave the voice of one I love. In those times, though, when spoken words seem awkward or unnecessary, I am still richly content.

Where words are restrained, the eyes often talk a great deal.

—Samuel Richardson

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